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课件网) Remember to say Thank you Unit 1 Relationships Viewing Workshop 北师大新版（2019） belong approval defend principle unmotivated politics contrast in contrast to motivation vt. 属于 n. 赞许；同意 vi.&vt. 保护，保卫 n. 原则；行为准则 adj. 不积极的，不主动的 n. 政治，政治活动 n. 差异，差别 vt. 形成对比 和……对比 n. 动力，积极性 How many times do you say “thank you” per day In which situations do you often say “thank you” Do you agree that the words “thank you” are magic Activate and Share How do you feel when a you are praised for something you have done well b someone says “Thank you.” for something you have done for them Have you done such things for people around you Why Suggested answers I like it when people praise me for something I’ve done well. It makes me happy and I feel proud of myself. I feel better when people say “Thank you.” to me when I do something for them. If they don’t say anything, sometimes I get annoyed. Watch Part 1 of the video, and answer the questions below. View and Learn 1. Why did Laura become interested in this topic 2. What question did she ask 3. What did she decide to do in order to find answers to her question Watch Part 1 of the video, and answer the questions below. “Am I the only one who does this ” She had some personal experiences. She noticed that when she was growing up, and until about recently, she would want to say “Thank you.” to someone, and she would want to praise them, she would want to take in their praise of her but she would just stop it. She decides to investigate into it in order to find the answer. Read the examples Laura has given. Then watch Part 2 of the video. Number them in the order that you hear. Number them in the order that you hear. _____ A gentleman, married for 25 years, is longing to hear his wife say “thank you”, but won’t ask. _____ Someone who was facing life and death in a rehab facility told Laura that his core wound was his father died without telling he was proud of him. _____ She knows a woman, who once a week, meets with her husband and says, “I’d really like you to thank me for all these things I did in the house and with the kids.” _____ A friend of Laura, April, thanks her children for doing their chores. 2 1 3 4 Why don’t we ask for the things we need Watch the rest of the video and note down the questions Laura asked and tick (√) the reasons she gave. Why don’t we ask for the things we need Watch the rest of the video and note down the questions Laura asked and tick (√ ) the reasons she gave. 1 _____ 2 _____ 3 Why can I say, “I would take my steak medium rare, I need size six shoe”... _____ I don’t want to feel insecure. _____ I don’t want others to know that I need help. _____ I worry that you could neglect me. _____ I felt shy and embarrassed. _____ I don’t what to give you critical data ... Why was I blocking it Why were other people blocking it √ √ √ √ Do you agree ... ...
