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课件网) ABSOLUTE AGONY! Our agony aunt answers your questions. Learning objectives After this lesson, you will be able to: 1. make out what happen to Ben and the situation that he is in. 2. analyze problems progressively and from different perspectives. 3. find out how to give others suggestions, reasons and specific ways. 4. learn how to write a letter to analyze and solve other's problems, using what we learn today. Lead in What's the biggest problem you have been faced with during the first month of your new semester the problem of how to get along with new classmates Who will you turn to for help when you face this problem Friends Parents Teachers Online forums no one – you prefer to keep things to yourself Other:_____ Agony Aunt Lead in Before reading Ben Agony Aunt the absolute agony of interpersonal conflicts Can give advice to him and help him out Turn to for help Read the letter and find sentences to answer the questions. 1. Why did Ben feel the team were let down by their point guard 2.Why is Ben angry with his friend Read para.1-3 and underline some key words to summarize the main idea of each paragraph. para.3 But I have to say that it’s partly your fault, isn’t it para.2 The situation here is so much worse because the “loose lips” is your best friend. para.1 There is an old American saying, “Loose lips sink ships.” The main core Specific analysis Individual reasons The main core Specific analysis Individual reasons Agony Aunt helps Ben_____ of the problem Treated this way, you're sure to feel hurt -- we should always be able to trust those closest to us, and it hurts even more when we find we can't. You admit that you were “letting off steam”. It is understandable in that situation, but we should always think before we speak. The show of empathy (同理心，共情) Read these sentences and find out Agony Aunt’s skills to analyse the problems. Post-reading THANKS FOR YOUR LISTENING 重点词块 fit in with others 与别人和谐相处 in a mess 乱七八糟；处境困难 help me out 帮我一把 be crazy about 热衷于 let down sb 使...失望 point guard 控球后卫 let off steam 发泄怒火 be angry with sb 生某人的气 have a chat with 与某人聊天 most importantly 最重要的是 come to one’s mind 出现在脑海 calm down 冷静下来 raise one’s concern 提出自己的担忧 embarrassed and ashamed 尴尬又羞愧 concentrate on 集中注意力于 loose lips sink ships 祸从口出 be sure to do 一定会做某事 apologise to sb 向某人道歉 communicate with sb 与某人交流 move on 继续前进 take a deep breath 深呼吸 pull one’s weight 做好分内事 work out 解决；计算出；制定出 tend to do 往往 早读任务：后半部分单词+语基默写完成句子（5个）+维克多句子 1.名单读完却没听到自己的名字，她心里一沉（sink)。 2.如果你不忙于挑剔生活，生活可以很美好(fault)。 3.我父亲新年时下决心要戒烟(resolution)。 4.他示意学生排好队，有序离开教室(signal)。 5.莱莉搬到一个新城市后，她很难适应那里的新环境(adjust)。/他过了一段时间才适应上夜班。 6.他们原谅了他的无礼。（forgive） 7. ... ...
